“Those who have deep spiritual aspirations should not feel that the family detracts from their growth in the life of the Spirit, but rather see it as a path which the Lord is using to lead them to the heights of mystical union.” – Pope Francis (Amoris Laetitia, #316, p. 247). Amoris Laetitia means “The Joy of Love” is a document written by Pope Francis addressing the pastoral care of the family.

This reflection holds true for me and more so in these strange times of traveling called life. With the world being in a near lockdown as a result of the outbreak of the coronavirus, the direct impact is grave to those involved: deaths, illness, loss of income and means of livelihood. Those with indirect impact are overwhelmed with feelings of uncertainty and anxiety. Groceries and disposable supplies are running out of stock in the stores. Industries, schools, places of entertainment and even churches are on lockdown. 

Let me narrow the scope to the family. With the palpable confusion, children are wondering about what is happening and turning to parents for answers and encouragement; parents who don’t have answers and are also searching.

That’s why Pope Francis’ reflection above reminds me of my spiritual role as a husband and father. I connect to God even more for strength so I can encourage my family. How do I encourage them to be hopeful in spite of the depressing facts around us? First, I recall the counsel of Fr. Angus Fraser, of blessed memory, upon our graduation from secondary (high) school and charge my family with it:

Joshua 1: 9. “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

Secondly, the situation presents me with the opportunity to teach my children the prayer of Divine Mercy. A very unique relevance for the prayer when the whole world needs to be prayed for. I reminded them that it was the same prayer that I was praying when recently I drove above the speed limit and was pulled over by the cop, but by the mercy of God which I asked for, I was set free without a fine. 

“Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world… For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.” Isn’t it so meaningful?

That was how my father encouraged us, as children to pray, and pray the Rosary even if we didn’t understand. The impact of my father’s encouragement then is the encouragement that I give mine now as the pastor of my family in these strange times of traveling called life!

Brothers, I hope you’ll also receive the spiritual strength from whatever your source is to stand in the gap for yours, for that is the height of the spiritual life. My source is God!

Have a blessed week!

• 3/15/20